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I am on a quest for search of my true love.

Transgender (38) looking for Female Ottawa, Canada

I always don't know what to say in this. It took me about two weeks to write this. I wrote little at a time and try to describe much as possible about as possible. I know who I am, but it is hard to describe it for other. I don't want to just say that "I am down to earth girl." I know it is used way too much here. I want people who I am real are all about and know why I am down to earth girl. I will write as much as possible. So you can understand what kind of person I am.

Let see. Let start with my name. My name is Isabella. I am very shy girl and I am not good at starting a conversation; because, of my shy nature. I am not much of talker. I like to rather listen then talk. I like romantic movie and I like to believe that I am very romantic at heart. I like to believe there is a special somebody out there in this world. I am search for that special person who is just for me, and who would completes me and I would completes her. I am on a quest and for search of that my "Miss Perfect" who make me feel like princess and hopefully I would do same for her. The one that I can't live without. I am waiting for that one fateful meeting that would change our lives, and make every moment and every encounter feel like magical blessing.

I only care about what you are inside and not outside. I don't have much standard for perfect girlfriend, but I have few important things what I am looking for in that special someone (Most importantly I look for is chemistry and kind heart). I am strong believer of love in first sight. I like taking things slow and I like to get to know each others first. I want someone is kindness in her heart and have a gentle soul. Somebody that can make laugh in joy when I am crying with sadness and hopefully I can do same for her. Most importantly someone that my heart can connect with and make my heart sing a song with love when with her. I am looking for that special somebody that I am willing to spend rest of my life with and someone that I can proudly say that she is my soulmate. Also who can be my best friend forever. I don't look for much except what is important. I like to believe that my life is a quest for search of true love and having greatest romance the world has seen. What can I say, I live for romance.

Here are some interesting little extra fact about me. I write with right hand and for everything else I use left hand (I paint with left hand). I love romantic movies. My favorite movie is Breakfast at Tiffany's. I love Audrey Hepburn's movies. I don't watch much of horror movies; because, I got scared easily. I am sometime get scare of my own shadow. I love to laugh. I think laughter is greatest medicine of all. My favorite comedy show is Big Bang Theory. I like watching hockey. It's only sport that I will ever watch. Not big fan of sport except for hockey. I love manga and favorite manga is Kamisama Hajimemashita. I like read in my spare time too. My favorite book are Harry Potter Series. I love poetry. I basically love all type of music, but I prefer to listen to old school music like 80's music. I like singing in shower and while taking a bath. It is only place that I know that I can sing confidently and know that I sound good too. People tell me I am terrible singer and make people's ear bleed and stuff. But who cares. It make make me feel happy inside when I sing. I am die hard nerd when it comes to video games and my favorite game of all time is Galaga. I know it is very old game (it is even older than me), but I love to think it is classic game and classic game never gets too old. I also love all sort of board game, card game, and role-playing games. I am trekkie and I watch lot of sci-fi stuff. I die for Shoulder Rubs, Cuddling, Kissing, holding hands, and romance. I am big fan of all that lovey dovey things. I am big affectionate person and I am not afraid to show it. I love stuff toys and anything that contain chocolate. I very addicted to chocolate and stuff animals. I love all animal except snake and spider. It doesn't mean I hate them. I am just freakishly scare of them. My favorite animal is fox. I love nature. I like going for walk in Mooney's Bay at night. It is so peaceful at night. I love feeding animals at park. It is one of my favorite thing to do. I love to seat on my balcony on Gentle Rainy Day with my tea and just watch rain. Sometime I also love to dance in the rain. I love taking a bubble bath with scented candles. My favorite scent is any thing that contain any kind of Berries. I love having crazy hair. Mostly green and pink. It is my favorite color of all time. I have 8 tattoos and all of them well hidden like Waldo. I am planning to get more tattoos and piercings when I can afford one. I hate playing poker. Mostly because I don't know how to bluff or to hide my excitement when I got good hands. What can I say, By nature, I am not good at being deception or manipulation. I love taking personality quiz when I am bored. I enjoy simple hidden beauties and beauties in small imperfection. I like to enjoy littlest things.

I am kind and gentle at heart. I am loyal and trustworthy. I couldn't even hurt a fly even if I try and I sometime afraid of even my own shadow. I treat people that I want to be treat and I never judge book by it's cover. I am sucker for simple romantic gestures (like nickname, flower, or just simple saying of "I Luv U") and cuddle. Sadly I come with some baggage. I wish I haven't, but I do as life isn't always about sunshine and rainbows. I have serious body image issues which I am still currently working on. Mostly of is rooted from fact that I am trans. Someday hopefully not too distance future, I would like to get my M to F Gender Reassignment Surgery (I perfer soon then later). I am in a process of getting approval from OHIP to get that surgery. I found it long and painful process, but it is all going to be worth it when I get surgery. I am going Algonquin to become pastry chief. I think baking is funnest thing ever. Yea, I just love baking. I am Wiccan which means I am witch. Don't worry, I live by very strict moral code. I don't touch dark magic even with six feet pole. My specialty is divination. I love see glimpse of what future has hold for people. Future is what people's hope and dream are made of, and I always hope their hope and dream come true.

That about sums up all I got to say. I think I have talked long enough and hopefully I didn't bored you with my writing. Thank you for reading all this. I hope you have a great day and feel free to drop me a message, if you're still interested and want to know me better. I pinky swear that I won't bite and who knows you might be my "Miss Right" for me.

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Appearance

EthnicityAsian
National heritageKorean
BuildA few extra pounds
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBlack
Hair ColorOther
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairNone
Best featureHair
Body ArtBelly button ring, Pierced... but only ear(s), Secret piercings, Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionDepression
Endowment (length)Short
Endowment (width)Thin
CircumcisedYes
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeB

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyFood / Catering
Employment StatusStudent

Looking For

I prefer:Humor, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchSomeone kind in heart and funny.
Our first dateHere are some ideas for first date:

Maybe it would be nice to go for little walk down on a park while holding hands and go feed the animals. And talk about our common interest or just talk about whatever comes to our mind. :P

or

Maybe go for a movie. I just love watching movies and especially romantic ones. So maybe go for movie? :-)

or

Whatever come to our mind or wherever the wind takes us (I am type of person who like to go with flow and sometime spare of the moment). :3

or

I tend to be submissive, so you can just surprise me. I like surprises and what could go wrong when it is on romantic setting. I also like woman who knows what to do and take charge of the situation.

P.S.: I want to just hold hands and maybe simple kiss on the cheek at end of date for first date. Nothing too serious. It doesn't meaning I am not affectionate person or not into PDA. I like take things slowly on first date and see where it goes from there. Plus, I am new dating scene and I have not gone out much on a date in my life so far. So I might be little bit clueless. :-)

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M)
My role isSadomasochist
I am seekingA relationship
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Cupping, Depilation / shaving, Mummification, Needle play, Piercing, Spanking, Tickling games, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosNo

Fetishes

FetishesArmpits, Feathers, Lace / Lingerie, Lactation, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Piercings, Shoes / Boots, Smoking, Tickling, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:All of the above and more!
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Pop, Pee, Animal, and children. Standard stuff.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyMy policy is try at least once before make opinion on it. I like explore all possibilities and no fantasy is off table until I try it. (No pop, pee, animals, and children that is my only guide line)
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, At a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Parents house, On the beach, In a church, Library, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Alyson Hannigan, Felicia Day, Kate Micucci, Melissa Rauch, and Daniel Craig.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Erotic Spanking
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Laughing, Joking, Pleasurable Moans
Pain level:Heavy Marks